As per SDT, autonomy is the urge to control one’s behavior and objectives. Women with a high sense of autonomy do not rely on anyone to give them the impression that they are doing well. They do not require a squad to affirm their decisions and their self-worth. Since they are confident about themselves, there is less of a need to seek validation through a social network. In other words, this kind of comfort while being alone indicates high emotional intelligence. However, the drawback is that one doesn’t call someone else just because they are bored.
5. The “hyper-vigilant” heart
Let’s admit the truth here: there is such thing as a fortress of a small circle, and not just a garden of Eden. There is a reason why many women who avoid large circles have experienced relational trauma.