By April, Simone escalated her campaign by speaking to my friends and expressing “concern” that I was becoming more scattered and forgetful lately.

My sister, Beatrice, called me from her home in Boston and asked, “What on earth is that woman up to with her fake honey voice and her questions about your transitions?”

I laughed and told her the truth, and Beatrice, who had always been ferociously direct, replied that she had never liked Simone and was glad her instincts were finally being validated.

By May, I had stopped letting Simone bring me anything edible, and I spent more time at the house in Sandpiper Point where I felt safe and where my mind was always clear.

The contrast between the two homes told me everything I needed to know, as I slept well and woke without any chemical fog when I was away from the city.

The night before Mateo called, I had been at the beach for five days, reviewing my quarterly statements and walking along the shore with a sense of strange and heavy calm.

Then my phone rang at 6:37 in the morning, and I answered it immediately to hear Mateo’s voice sounding uncharacteristically shaken on the other end.